Showing posts with label living life to the fullest. Show all posts
Showing posts with label living life to the fullest. Show all posts

Thursday, September 10, 2015

Reviewing "A Walk In The Woods"


The lovely picture at the right is NOT on the Appalachian Trail, but here in Utah.  I have done some hiking since we have been out here, and believe me it has been quite an adventure, but nothing like hiking nearly 2,000 miles on the Appalachian Trail!


Went with hubby tonight to see the movie "A Walk In The Woods" starring Robert Redford and Nick Nolte filmed along the Appalachian Trail.  It was very funny! We got a kick out of seeing Amicalola Falls in the movie, as we have actually spent time there. The Lodge there is lovely as are the Falls.  The picture below is of those lovely Falls.

It was the perfect time for me to see this movie, as I have been a bit melancholy this past month.  First there was an abnormal ECG and Holter Monitor (turned out to be nothing serious, just premature ventricular contractions) but brought home the reality that I am no Spring Chicken any more!  Then there was a Gout attack secondary to the stress about the Cardiac thing...geesh.  Then, to top it all off, I went to the eye doctor for new glasses and he put me on glaucoma drops!  Wow! That was just a bit much for one month!

So, the movie tonight was quite appropriate.  It was about two old guys getting together and walking the Appalachian Trail.  Now, that is no small feat!  Their adventures were both poignant and hysterical.  They shared details of their lives.  They shared their fears and their joys.

I don't know how well this movie will play with the "younger" set, but for us who are 50 plus it is definitely a winner. This movie is good for a bunch of good laughs, but it is also a reminder that we need to live each day to the fullest!

For me, well it reminded me that I still have some things I want to do/complete before my time here is up.  I also want to remember every day just how much my family means to me.

So, to sum it all up, this one is a TEN in my book!


PEACE, LOVE & JOY

Sunday, September 23, 2012

Hold Them Tightly!

Those precious girls you see are my daughter, Melanie, and her oldest, Ashlyn.  I have four children and seven lovely grandchildren and even two great-grandchildren.  My how has that happened when I was just 21 last week?

Sometimes it does seem that way.  It seems like only yesterday that I held my first child in my arms and looked at that tiny face and realized all the responsibility that was suddenly mine.  I have enjoyed the responsibility, the love and the joy that having children and grandchildren have given me over the years.

No, it wasn't always sunshine and roses.  There were good times and bad, ups and downs, joys and disappointments, but I wouldn't trade any of those times for anything.

This past two weeks I have been involved in the passing and homegoing of my son-in-law Aaron's Pop.  It has been a rough time for all involved.  It is never easy losing a loved one.
I share this to remind you to HOLD THEM TIGHTLY while you have them with you.  You nor I are not promised another day or even minute on this earth.  Each moment is precious.  Time passes so quickly.  My oldest son, Cliff, is now 45 years old!  How on earth did that happen?  His sister, Wendy, is 44, Melanie 35 and Charles is 33.  Wow! That is a lot of Mom time! 

I have totally loved every minute of being a grandma!  All the joy and not so much of the responsibility!  I do feel responsible however, to show my grandchildren all the love and compassion I can.  I feel responsible to share with them what it means to be kind, loving, caring people.  I feel responsible to show them exactly what unconditional love is.  I feel responsible to let them know I will ALWAYS be there for them no matter what!  I also feel responsible to share my love of God with them. 

I am pleased to say that all my children have grown up to be responsible adults, parents and citizens of the world!  As I watch those who have children and grandchildren of their own, I see them modeling behaviors which will ensure their children will also be good citizens.  Education has been foremost in their lives, and they are all learning and growing each and every day. 

As I watched the little girls deal with the death of their beloved Pop this past week, I saw the generosity of spirit in them as they loved on Nana.  I heard them sing goodbye to their Pop by standing with their parents at the gravesite and singing "You Are My Sunshine" for one last time to their Pop who sang it to them from the time they were babies.  They will not forget how much he loved them.  They will not forget the hours they spent on his lap feeling his unconditional love for them. 

Hold your loved ones close.  Tell them how much you love them at every opportunity.  Hold your criticism and give your love and comfort frequently and freely.  I grew up in a home where love and forgiveness were NOT modeled for me.  The people outside my own home...those in my Church, my extended family and my school modeled those behaviors for me.  I thank God for that every day of my life.  I thank God that my children will remember me holding them on my lap.  I thank God that my grandchildren will have the kind of unconditional love that was not present in my own growing years.

I am very proud of my children and grandchildren....I want them to know that.  I want them to know that no matter what choices they make in life, that I am always there for them....that I will always love them and not judge them. 

Today, if you haven't spoken to those who are "family" find a moment to do so.  If they are far away - call.  If they are close, throw your arms around them and hug them tightly and tell them how much they mean to you.  Time passes quickly don't waste a minute of it. 

GOD BLESS - Peace, Love and Joy!

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

It Isn't Over Yet!

Sunday I decided that it was finally time to see the movie The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel.  To say that I enjoyed it would be and understatement!  It is a marvelous movie about the lives and choices of a bunch of individuals.  They are not OLD people in spite of all the trailers that would lead you to believe that is the case. 

In fact, one of the central characters in the movie is a very young hotel manager and his very young girlfriend.  Everyone in this picture seems to learn something about himself/herself as the story progresses. 

In the beginning of the movie you are very briefly introduced to six senior adults, all coming from different backgrounds and circumstances.  Each one of them brings to the movie a set of choices.  It is fascinating to watch as they are transported to a culture which is so very foreign from anything they have ever experienced.  There is a Civil Service retiree and his wife of forty years.  There is a Judge.  There is a newly widowed woman who has never struck out on her own in her entire life.  There is a lady who is English and going to India to get a hip replacement after finding out her wait in England would have been six months.  Then there is the little guy who is the hotel manager/owner who is trying to build something beautiful and exotic and wonderful in memory of his father. 

Each of the characters has a different way of handling their new set of circumstances.  To say the least the Most Exotic is not exactly what ANY of them expected. Upon arrival they immediately have to make a decision of whether to stay or go.  For some of them the decision is easier than others. 

This movie will make you, no matter what age you are, examine your direction and priorities in life.  I felt saddened that about 90% of the people watching the movie on Sunday were over 50.  This is NOT JUST A MOVIE FOR SENIORS!  This movie has valuable life lessons for each and every person out there.  One of my favorite lines of the movie was "Everything will be alright in the end, and if it isn't alright, it isn't the end yet!"  What a marvelous way to think! 

This is a movie about learning to take risks and step out and make the best of the situation you are in, no matter what.  It is a movie which states you are NEVER too old to learn something new or to take a risk.  Without taking a few risks, you will miss ever so many wonderful experiences in life!

I used to sail in the Bahamas with a friend of mine for 2 to 6 weeks at a time.  It was just the two of us out there on a 37 foot catamaran in that great big Caribbean.  Oh, there were times we were nervous or scared, but I wouldn't trade those marvelous, exhilarating experiences for anything.  There were risks for sure, storms for one...pirates for another!  But that time soaking up the sun, sailing on the winds and dodging storms are priceless memories. 

I have a new friend in China who I talk with every day now on SKYPE.  China...huge, mysterious and entirely foreign to anything I have ever known.  The desire at the top of my "bucket list" now is a trip to China.  I am not afraid to go alone.  I am not afraid to experience a completely different culture and learn from it.  How about you?  Have you worked on a bucket list?  Do you have things you would like to do during this short span of your lifetime?  Plan for it.  Dream about it.  Make it happen!

I recommend The New Exotic Marigold Hotel to anyone who wants to see great acting, colorful and exotic backgrounds, culture different from their own.  Heck, it's a great movie, just go for it!  I promise you will not regret it!

God Bless - Peace, Love and Joy

Thursday, February 16, 2012

I'm Not Dead Yet!

In yesterday's blog I talked about "calculated risk."  Today I want to talk about living each day to the fullest and looking forward to tomorrow.

Have you seen the movie, "As Good As It Gets?" Do you live each day thinking oh well, things are going okay and this is as good as it gets?

I feel like a lot of people are on that treadmill.  The one where you go to work and come home and do the chores and go to work and come home and do the chores, and as long as the bills are paid and the kids aren't killing each other then we should be satisfied.  Well, maybe....and maybe not!

I think at lot of us, particularly those over 60, have decided that we have done it all...and now we will just cruise off into the sunset.  Well guys, I have to tell you I intend to go out of this world still trying new things, going new places and experiencing as many wonderful things as I can.

Call it a bucket list or whatever, but you need to continue to set goals for yourself no matter what age you are.  You need to have fun like a child.  See the world through the eyes of a child.  Perhaps if you spend some time really "listening" to a child and how they view the world.  Part of it is just opening your eyes to new possibilities.

Did you always want to learn to fly?  Do you think you are too old to learn?  You are not!  Want to climb a mountain (by the way this is NOT one of my things! lol) ...well perhaps you might not want or be able to do Everest, but how about starting with one of those rock walls?  Aw, c'mon you can do it!
Always wanted to learn to play a piano or paint a beautiful picture?  You would be surprised at what you can do if you will just TRY!!

I am a firm believer in living each day to the fullest.  I am also a firm believer in setting new goals and moving forward.  As an RN I have always told people with arthritis to "keep moving," because if you stop moving the arthritis takes over and you become immobile.  Well, the same is true of life in general, if you stop moving you become immobile.  All your little hurts (arthritis, gout, etc.) will feel larger and cripple you.  Keep moving!!  Keep doing! Keep setting new goals!  Improve your physical health by eating right and exercising (find one you like and you will keep doing it).  Don't become a couch potato in front of that TV watching other people live.

Whether it is taking small mini vacations to places close to home, or planning that trip to Europe that you always wanted...do it...do it now!  Believe it or not, even the planning will energize you and make you live each day looking forward.

I hate hearing people say the best years of their lives were in high school.  What's up with that?  Life doesn't end at graduation from high school or college.  Life doesn't end until your last breath.  So guys and gals, keep doing, keep breathing, keep moving, keep planning and live your life to the fullest!  After all you only go around once!

Here's a Great RECIPE for today...Roasted Asparagus...and let me share a little about that marvelous vegetable before you cook it!!

Asparagus is one of the most nutritionally well-balanced vegetables in existence. It leads nearly all produce items in the wide array of nutrients it supplies in significant amounts for a healthy diet.
Asparagus is the leading supplier among vegetables of folic acid. A 5.3 ounce serving provides 60% of the recommended daily allowance for folacin which is necessary for blood cell formation, growth, and prevention of liver disease. Folacin has been shown to play a significant role in the prevention of neural tube defects, such as spina bifida, that cause paralysis and death in 2,500 babies each year.
Its wealth of nutrients, fiber and very low sodium and calorie content make asparagus a nutritionally wise choice for today's health-conscious consumer.
asparagus nutrition information
Asparagus is:
  • Low in calories, only 20 per 5.3 oz. serving, less than 4 calories per spear.
  • Contains no fat or cholesterol.
  • Very low in sodium.
  • A good source of potassium.(1)
  • A source of fiber (3 grams per 5.3 oz. serving). (2)
  • An excellent source of folacin. (3)
  • A significant source of thiamin. (4)
  • A significant source of vitamin B6. (4)
  • One of the richest sources of rutin, a compound which strengthens capillary walls.
  • Contains glutathione (GSH). (5)


1 pound of asparagus, tough ends removed
garlic salt
olive oil

Preheat oven to 375 degrees.

Lightly oil a large cookie sheet, and spread the asparagus evenly across .... sprinkle with garlic salt and drizzle a bit of olive oil over the top of the asparagus.

Roast asparagus for 10 minutes or until tender.  YUMMO and just filled with great 

God Bless and have an exciting day!!!

Sunday, September 25, 2011

Friends and Family

I have been blessed in life with a wonderful family of four great children. All of them have grown into wonderful adults who are raising wonderful children. Oh, I made a lot of mistakes I am sure in raising them, but I always tried to let them know they were loved by me and by God.

I have felt sad this week as I have cared for Lucy and wondered more than one time how lonely my life would have been without my children. I am not saying there were not difficult times....for sure, there were! But for every rough spot,for every difficult time, there have been an abundant amount of joyous times! Laughter, smiles, pride and giggles have been a part of my life for more than 40 years now!
I can't imagine being Lucy and never having had any children. I would have missed so much!

I have also been so blessed to have had many special friends throughout my life. Just when I felt most alone and needy, God always provided someone to be there for me. My greatest pleasure in life has been being there for someone else who needs a friend. Sharing joys, sorrows and highs and lows with others is what life is really all about.

Do you have friends who have shared special times with you...good or bad? When is the last time you told them how much they mean/meant to you? Do it today. Write a note to someone and let them know what their friendship has meant to you. Time passes so quickly and life can change in an instant. Don't miss an opportunity to tell those you love that you love them. Don't miss an opportunity to say thank you to someone who has been important in your life.

Spread joy. You won't regret it!

On a health note, take care of your EYES! When was the last time you had your eyes checked? This week's laser treatment of my eye was extremely painful, but I am seeing better with each day that passes.



I am enjoying the pumpkins out there already! Fall seems to be upon us, and it is my favorite time of year. I came across this pie recipe this week and thought I would share it with all of you. Fall seems like Pie Time to me! LOL


FALL RECIPE OF THE DAY!!!

Salted Caramel Apple Pie



2 1/2 cups all purpose flour
1 tsp salt
1 tbsp sugar
12 tbsp cold unsalted butter, cut into pieces
1/4 cup chilled shortening
1 tbsp white vinegar
1/2 cup very cold water

1. In food processor pulse together flour, salt and sugar. Add butter and shortening. Pulse 8 to ten times or until mixture resembles coarse crumbs and some of the butter is pea sized.
2. Combine vinegar with cold water. While pulsing crumb mixture in processor, drizzle in just enough water mixture to form dough, 1/3 to 1/2 cup..Dough will hold together when you pinch it. Halve dough, wrap in plastic wrap and press into disks...chill for 1 hour or until ready to use. May be frozen for up to 2 months.
Makes TWO SINGLE CRUSTS.

(ONE RECIPE PIE CRUST AS ABOVE)
3 pounds baking apples such as Gala or Golden Delicious, peeled and cored
1 tbsp fresh lemon juice
1 tsp ground cinnamon
Pinch of ground nutmeg
1/4 cup cornstarch
1/2 cup Salted Caramel Sauce (recipe follows)
Egg Wash
Crystal Sugar

Line a 9 inch pie pan with 1 rolled out crust; trim edges, leaving a 1/4 inch overhang. Place in freezer until ready to fill, or at least 20 minutes.
Preheat Oven to 425 with rack in the bottom third. Cut apples into 1/4 inch thick slices and toss in a large bowl with lemon juice, cinnamon, nutmeg and cornstarch. Add 1/2 cup Salted Caramel Sauce and toss to combine. Pour apples into chilled pie shell and return to freezer.
ROLL remaining crust to a 13 inch circle. Use a paring knife to cut slits or small designs on the top. Brush rim of bottom crust with egg wash and cover with second crust, sealing the edges. Trim edges as necessary and crimp. Brush entire pie with extra egg wash and sprinkle with crystal sugar, freeze pie again until crust is COLD, about 20 min.
BAKE pie on a foil lined baking sheet until crust begins to brown....about 20 minutes...REDUCE HEAT to 375 and bake until crust is golden and juices bubble...50-60 minutes more. (If crust browns too quickly, tent pie with foil). Cool pie and serve slices with Salted Caramel Sauce. Serves 8

SALTED CARAMEL SAUCE
1 1/2 cups sugar
2 tsp sea salt
1/2 cup heavy cream
1 tbsp butter
1/4 tsp vanilla extract

COMBINE 1/2 cup water, sugar and salt in a medium saucepan over medium-high heat. Stir until sugar is dissolved, then remove spoon.
BRUSH inside edges of pan with water to dissolve any sugar crystals. Reduce heat to medium, then allow mixture to boil, gently swirling pan occasionally. Cook to a light amber color, 20-25 min. Remove from heat and stir in cream and butter with a clean spoon ( mixture will bubble, then settle). Stir in vanilla and set aside to cool. Sauce can be refrigerated for up to a month! Makes 1 1/3 cups.

Sunday, September 11, 2011

Remembering and Appreciating

We were up at 4:30 AM today and at the Park by 5:30!
Mom, Dad and their little triathlete went to the "transition area" and set up the bicycle for the ride to come.

The temperature in Alpharetta this morning was only 53 degrees when the kids had to jump feet first into the pool for the first laps before they rode their bicycles. That took guts.

The kids were all amazing. From the littlest to the oldest, they swam, bicycled and ran to the finish line...they really were IRON KIDS! It was also fun to watch the parents, and grandparents (including me) RUN from one venue to another! Whew, we all got our exercise.

And none of us there, in spite of the excitement of the day, forgot the date and it's significance.

I stood and watched as the children and their parents and thought about how blessed we all were to be standing there alive today. It was painful to think about how many people are remembering ten years ago and grieving the loss of their loved ones. None of us will ever be the same after that day. As we drove out of Atlanta, I remembered driving through Atlanta the day after the attacks and there was not a plane in the sky! It was such an eerie thing, as when you drive up Interstate 75 through Atlanta the skies are usually lined up with planes waiting to land.

We all need to pray that nothing like that ever happens in this country again. We need to learn to love each other and become ONE NATION, keeping that feeling of being one Nation instead of a divided Nation in our hearts every day.

I shed tears today as I saw my little athlete mount her bicycle, and then again when she was running toward me as she ran for the Finish Line...
I have had a close brush with death on three occasions, and yet I am still here. I have been blessed with healthy children and grandchildren. I get so much joy from watching them grow up and become caring, loving and intelligent beings. I am especially thankful today..."but for the grace of God" I or one of my family members could have been on one of those planes or in one of those buildings. Thank God if you can hug your family members today. Don't ever leave the house without telling them how much you love them. Give love and praise frequently. Share Joy!

Congratulations Miss Ashlyn on your wonderful performance today. We were all so very proud of you as usual. You are a special girl, and you did your best today.
Fantastic Job! Go-Girl-Go!

After the run....think she might be tired?

Monday, September 5, 2011

Speak Out Against Childhood Obesity

All over the Country we have seen a huge increase in the problem of obesity. But, the most frightening rise is that in children.

I first became concerned about childhood obesity when I was working for the State one Fall in local schools. We were going to Elementary, Middle and High Schools teaching kids how to open a new type of milk pouch.

When I went to the Elementary schools, the youngest children were mostly of normal weight. But, the higher grade the larger percentage of obese children.

I began to watch what was being served to the children at the schools. Many of the children actually eat breakfast and lunch at school each day. Instead of healthy choices, children were given sausages on a stick, dipped in pancake batter and deep fried with a side of syrup to dip them in...and "breakfast pizza". No fresh fruit or healthy cereal was available. Chocolate and strawberry milk were plentiful.

Lunch time rolled around and Pizza and corn dogs and corn, and fries...no fresh fruit again...no fresh vegetables. More chocolate and strawberry milk. And, in addition, there were snack machines with unhealthy snacks and cola machines everywhere!

Oh My Gosh...no wonder the kids are getting fat! I have been a big supporter of Jaime Oliver's program to try and get healthier foods into American School Children! It is critical folks. Talk to your school principals and superintendents. Speak up often and loud at PTA meetings and enlist other parents in the cause. The squeaky wheel...well you know how that goes!

Along with an increase in obesity, comes an increase in diabetes in children, heart problems and high blood pressure. We must change the way our children are being fed.
I am pleased to see that some of the fast food chains are beginning to offer more healthy choices. But, if you as parents don't make the right choices for your children you are guilty of contributing to the problem.

Sometimes your have to say no to the fries and get apple slices instead. Choose the plain burger over the fried chicken nuggets. We can do this. We can take back our children's health. It starts at home...it starts with YOU! Don't buy those sugary cereals, don't buy those sugar laden soft drinks and juices. Children will eat right if the right foods are presented to them.

I purposely didn't include pictures in this blog...THIS ISN'T A PRETTY PICTURE..IT IS AN UGLY PROBLEM!

Let's get the kids running, swimming, playing on the playground. Limit the time your child can spend in front of the television or computer. Be an example, and do it with them. Get out there and walk, bike, run and swim....you and your children will live better lives because of it!

Saturday, August 27, 2011

Heroes



What makes a hero? What is that quality that makes the fireman run back into the burning building looking for one more person to save? What makes that man on the beach run in to saving a drowning victim when he is not a lifeguard?

There are many kinds of heroes, and I would like to share today about two who are no longer with us, but served in such marvelous and exemplary ways.

I first read about Dr. Thomas Dooley when I was a young girl growing up in the Maryland countryside. Dr. Dooley only lived to the tender age of 34, but what he accomplished in that short time is not only amazing but courageous.

Thomas Anthony Dooley III (January 17, 1927 – January 18, 1961) was an American who, while serving as a physician in the United States Navy, became increasingly famous for his humanitarian activities in South East Asia during the late 1950s until his early death from cancer. He authored three popular, inspirational books that described his humanitarian activities in Viet Nam and Laos: Deliver Us From Evil, The Edge of Tomorrow, and The Night They Burned the Mountain. These three were later collected into a single volume and published by Farrar, Straus & Cudahy, under the title, "Dr. Tom Dooley's Three Great Books."

I read Dr. Dooley's books more than one time. If you want a humbling, tearful and inspiring group of books, you need to check these out. I was amazed by his courage. Even when he was wearing an "iron maiden" type brace as his spine was deteriorating from cancer, he fought on to help others he felt were less fortunate than he.

Dooley's legacy continues through the work of the Dooley Foundation-Intermed International, which has carried on the work of Dr. Dooley for the past 50 years. Its headquarters are based in New York City and headed by Dr. Verne Chaney, President and Founder. Dooley-Intermed is a non-profit, non-governmental, non-sectarian, non-political, private voluntary organization receiving its financial support entirely from private contributions. It neither seeks nor receives government grants or contracts. The purpose of the foundation is to provide medical assistance to refugees, children, and villagers in the less privileged parts of the world with emphasis on self-help projects in the areas of preventive medicine, public health, family planning and health worker training. Dooley-Intermed presently supports medical aid projects in four countries: Laos, Nepal, Nicar, and Thailand.

Dr. Dooley lives on.

Catherine The Great!

Her large, strong hands had held me as I drew my first breath twenty years before, and now she would hold my first born child. I knew the first time I met Dr. Johnson that she was an extraordinary woman. It was 1967 and she was sixty-three years old. As I looked into her clear blue eyes, and listened to her soft but authoritative voice, I knew I could trust her to care for me and my unborn child.

Dr. Catherine Johnson was a tall, stately woman with a crop of curly, salt and pepper colored hair atop her head. Her face was strong and angular with high, prominent cheekbones.

Catherine had been brought up in a very strict environment in a time when women did not get to choose to be physicians. Against all odds, this woman earned scholarships and went on to become an Obstetrician.

Her father had always made her wear dark colored gray, blue, black type of clothing, and so as an adult out on her own, she always wore incredibly colorful clothes! One time she came into my room wearing a red and white checkered shirtwaist dress, with a wide red belt and a red flower in her hair!

But, when it came to the business of being a physician, there was none better. She was conscientious, caring and interested in the welfare of the patients in her care.
By the time I met her, she had delivered over 7,000 babies and was still working.

After suffering a stroke, at which point many would have chosen to retire, she chose instead to study art at home during her recovery. She used to paint lovely paintings at the hospital while she was in between checking on her laboring patients. All the money she made selling these paintings, she donated to local scholarships for physicians, because she said without the assistance of scholarships she would never have been able to become a doctor herself.

She frequently told her staff to "write off" charges for patients who she knew were struggling to pay their bills. She was an extraordinary human being, and a real hero in my book.


I have this painting in my home...Catherine painted it, and it is a constant reminder of what it means to give something of yourself back to the world...Catherine has long since left this world, but the memory of her generosity, kindness and heroism lives on in all of us who had the privilege of knowing her.

Tell me about some of your heroes will you?

Sailing, Sailing

I absolutely love the water. Especially the ocean. I enjoy boating of any kind, buy my absolute favorite is sailing.

I was fortunate enough to spend two weeks one year and four weeks another sailing all around the Bahama Islands on a 37 foot catamaran. After outfitting and stocking our boat, we would set off from Titusville, Florida and sail down the intracostal waterway to Ft. Lauderdale. We would always spend the night in South Florida to check weather conditions and re-stock anything we might have forgotten, before heading for West End, Grand Bahama.

Watching all this hurricane stuff made me remember how quickly the temperament of the ocean can change. It can in a matter of minutes go from glassy smooth ripples, to raging 7 and 8 foot waves or more. It is always mysterious, always surprising and thrilling and at times frightening.

I remember on summer in particular. I kept a journal that year and called it "The Year of the Squall." That was because every day was an adventure of waiting for what the severity of weather would be that evening. The mornings were always calm and beautiful and we would awake to incredible sunrises. But, by late afternoon every day, and I do mean every day, we would get storms.


One particularly peaceful afternoon as we were sailing along from Fox Town to Marsh Harbor, I was leaned back against the cabin reading a book. My companion was at the tiller steering our course. When I looked up from my book, I was suddenly speechless! There was a positively HUGE waterspout heading right for us! I squealed and pointed as my friend looked to see what I was so excited about. We had to decide rather quickly the course of action we would take.

Running it over together we both remembered having been told to move at a right angle to the direction of the spout. We made a quick course adjustment, and watched in disbelief as the waterspout passed right between us and another sailor about 200 yards behind us!

After our relief at having escaped the spout, we found ourselves in another dilemma. The area in which we had turned was known as Crishes Swash. I have no idea what that means, but it was shallows! Really shallow shallows. I took my position on the front of the boat, to point the way toward the deeper parts of the water as we began to pick our way back to our planned course.

As we inched our way along between outcroppings of coral and sand bars, we saw some of the most beautiful fish and wildlife I have ever seen. It was beautiful and pristine there. If it had not been for the water spout we would never have known about or seen this beautiful place. Eventually we were able to find our way back out to deeper water and proceed to our next mooring.

Sailing is a beautiful, adventurous, exhilarating if somewhat dangerous sport.
Like any other sport, you need to study before you attempt it. Charts, weather, radios, depth finders can all help. But your absolute best friend is your own common sense. Use your head, plan ahead, and have fun. Believe me, the adventures my companion and I shared while sailing will stay with me for the rest of my life.



I will share more about them in a later blog. Have a Blessed Day!



Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Using Your Hands

Kindness is a language the dumb can speak and the deaf can hear and understand. Christian Nestel Bovee

I was thirteen when I first met Larry at Bible School. We became instant friends. Larry was a tall, dark and handsome young man with curly hair any girl would kill for! Larry was different from any boy I had ever met. Not just in the way he looked, but Larry was totally deaf. He had lost his hearing as a one year old due to a severe case of measles.

The first day I met Larry he gave me one of those cards with the letters of the American Sign Language alphabet on it. I took it home and began to work diligently on learning every letter. Larry could read lips, but I felt like it would mean a lot to him if we could sign to each other.

I can't tell you how excited he was the next day when I could actually sign a few words. It seemed that although he had been deaf from such a young age, no one in his immediate family had taken the time to learn sign language. Larry began to teach me word signs as well as the letters, and soon we were "talking" to each other fairly rapidly. Larry would teach me signs, and I would let him put his hands on the side of my throat to "feel" the sounds. Larry could actually vocalize, but had to be taught to do so. I loved being able to help him learn new words. I will never forget some of the "signs"...milk for instance is signed like your hands milking a cow...too funny and too easy!

I enjoyed being able to talk with Larry, and wanted others to be able to also. One of my readers, Betty Lou, who was a childhood neighbor of mine, reminded me tonight of a childhood memory she had. She remembered night in our tent in the back yard when I was teaching she and my sister, Dale, sign language by signing in shadows on the tent. I had forgotten that night. Betty Lou has a great memory...because she is several years younger than I am!

I started practicing signing the news. Boy, that is one way to speed up your signing skills. I loved to be able to sign the church sermons to Larry when someone was speaking in a way that was difficult for him to lip read.

Larry and I stayed close for several years, and I attended some activities at the Maryland School For The Deaf. We once attended a basketball game at Galludet College for the Deaf. It was interesting to see people communicating across the gymnasium by signing. The game was exciting and we had so much fun.

Larry actually played Little League Baseball with hearing boys of his own age. I wet to a lot of his games. He was great. Most of the boys he played against didn't even realize he couldn't hear. He was such an inspiration to so many. He hated it when people thought of him as "handicapped." Believe me, he wasn't!

Many, many years have passed. Larry and I went our separate ways after high school, but I have heard he was quite successful in his work. I always knew he would be.

I went on to go to become a Registered Nurse. I used my signing ability many times during my career, and always remembered Larry fondly.

Larry was the perfect example of an "overcomer." He never let his inability to hear get in the way of his joy of life. The only time I ever felt sorry for him, was when they would play beautiful music in Church and he couldn't "hear" it. But, amazing young man that he was, he "felt" the rhythm and enjoyed it.


Do you know an "overcomer?" Someone who has had a fruitful and successful life in spite of the difficulties that have been put in their path? I would love to hear from you.